The utter agony of love
Glaumbær. mariejirousek |
Being in love with a priest was a foolish thing for Sólveig. She was a simple maid from an insignificant family line. Reverend Oddur Gíslason (1740-1786) was the son of a bishop, so whether he loved his housekeeper or not was irrelevant. Marrying her would dishonor his parents and look bad for his and his family’s social status.
The young Sólveig didn’t give up hope and almost a decade of tending to Oddur’s home, she still longed for becoming more than just a housekeeper. She had been in Oddur’s household since 1768 and some say even earlier than that.
Miklibær farm and Miklibær cemetery sometime between 1935 and 1950. Ólafur Magnússon |
The hope of one day becoming the reverend’s wife was crushed on May 13th, 1777 when Oddur and Guðrún Jónsdóttir (d.1811 at age 59) from Goðdalir got engaged. It was a sudden decision and it’s possible that Sólveig had no idea there was even a relationship between them. It hadn’t exactly been a union of deep-rooted love. In fact, It was Guðrún’s father’s idea. He was a priest himself, Jón Sveinsson at Goðdalir. One day he visited Bishop Gísli Magnússon (Oddur’s father) and asked him if his daughter could marry his son.
The couple got married in Hóladómakirkja in the summer of 1777 and moved into Miklibær where Sólveig still worked as a housekeeper. A miserable situation was about to become unbearable for the young lady. Not only was there a Mrs. Oddur Gíslason that wasn’t her, but the Mrs. also took over her job as a housekeeper. Even so, Sólveig stayed on at the farm as a maid.
Sólveig had a hard time accepting Oddur’s marriage. Tíminn |
The increasing agony
Watching the two of them tore her soul apart and she fell into a dark depression. People said she literally lost her mind. To add a little push closer to the edge of the deep dark pit Sólveig was heading towards, Guðrún quickly became pregnant with their child (Gísli).
Life had become utterly meaningless and too painful to exist in. Sólveig felt betrayed and everything had been taken from her.
Guðrún pregnant with Oddur’s child. Source |
With every opportunity, Sólveig attempted suicide. She had come close a few times, one of them was when she tried to drown herself in Gegnir, a deep stream running right below the farm. Today the spot is known as Solkupyttur, named after Sólveig.
Solkupyttur in Gegnir by Miklibær, summer of 1985. Hjalti Pálsson |
Hrolleifsdalur. Navaro |
The main room is called baðstofa and it´s where people sleep and do their daily hangouts. This photo is from the museum at Glaumbær. Guðni Þórðarson |
The escape
Sólveig just needed to use the knife real quick to mend her clothing. Photo from Stóri-Ás farm. Þorsteinn Jósepsson |
Heartbroken, Sólveig saw no escape except from life. Amy Haslehurst |
The last wish
Miklibær and Miklibær Church sometime between 1935 and 1950. All Sólveig wanted was to be buried within the cemetery walls. Ólafur Magnússon |
Devastated and distraught by her death, Oddur rode over to his father, Bishop Gísli Magnússon, to receive permission to bury her in the cemetery. Gísli was not about to allow a suicide victim into sanctified dirt and rejected the request. During all this, Sólveig’s corpse rested inside the farm awaiting burial.
Oddur returned to Miklibær with the unfortunate news. Instead of granting Sólveig her dying wish, they buried her outside of the cemetery walls. They laid her head as close to the cemetery as possible.
This wasn’t good enough for Sólveig and yet again, she felt betrayed. This time, she wasn’t going to lay there and watch everything her heart desired go in vain.
Upset and hurt, Sólveig appeared to Oddur in a dream. She was angry and with a threatening tone she said, If you won’t have me rest in holy ground, then neither will you, and then she walked impetuously away.
Sólveig. Artist: Gísli Sigurðsson |
The hauntings
The dream turned out to be one of many and soon she wasn’t just appearing in dreams, but she began haunting both Oddur and others. Her hauntings scared the living daylights out of the Miklibær residents who now refused to go outside alone after dark. It got so bad for Oddur that he refused to even ride his horse alone after dark.
Sólveig was known to visit Litla-Hlíð farm, east of the river in Vesturdalur. Bergþór lived in a shed on the Litla-Hlíð farm. She’d be riding a brown horse. Whenever he saw her coming, he’d run out to a hill north of his shed and stop her before she entered Vesturdalur.
On a farm called Bakkakot lived the brothers Jón and Þorlákur Gunnlaugssons. One time they were making hay below the farmhouse. One brother saw Sólveig in the valley, she was heading towards Hverhól and across the river and towards them. The brother called out to the other: Watch out for the devil that’s approaching you!
Bakkakot in Vesturdalur. After Sólveig died, she was often seen approaching this farm. Kristján C. Magnússon |
Vesturdalur. Lucia13 |
Vesturdalur. Gertjan Van Noord |
Vesturdalur. PJT56 / Wikimedia Commons / CC BY-SA 4.0 |
Grief and guilt
Oil painting of Sólveig fighting The Deacon of Dark River. Artist Þrándur Þórarinsson |
Turbulent times
Poisonous lava is spewing out. Draugur |
This became known in Europe as Laki haze. Europe suffered dire consequences and by the end of June 1783 many European cities were covered in a poisonous fog rendering boats port-bound. It was estimated that in Britain alone, 23000 people died from the poisoning.
The poison being the sulfur dioxide gas which causes the internal soft tissues to swell and a person chokes as a result. When the gas comes in contact with the moisture in the lungs, it produces sulfurous acid.
The poisonous air killed both humans and animals. Draugur |
The poison finds you. Draugur |
On July 20th 1783, Reverend Jón Steingrímsson (1728-1791) held a mass that became known as the eldmessa or fire sermon:
This past week, and the two prior to it, more poison fell from the sky than words can describe: ash, volcanic hairs, rain full of sulfur and saltpeter, all of it mixed with sand. The snouts, nostrils, and feet of livestock grazing or walking on the grass turned bright yellow and raw. All water went tepid and light blue in color and gravel slides turned grey. All the earth’s plants burned, withered and turned grey, one after another, as the fire increased and neared the settlements.
Miklibær and Silfrastaðir, the two parishes that Oddur served, suffered the ill effects of this as well. In 1783, he buried 4 people, but in 1784 when the mist hardships were really taking an effect, he buried 27 more. These are big numbers for a tiny community. In addition, being the priest, he would have been personally engaged in comforting the survivors and the struggles they were facing.
A struggle to the end
In August 1783 The mist hardships caused horrific damage to Oddur’s parish. Much of the cattle was lost due to fluoride poisoning and in the aftermath, people died. In all Oddur buried 31 people.
In 1784, Oddur requested a transfer away from Miklibær, but his request must have fallen deaf ears, because he never left Miklibær.
The evening of October 1st, 1786, Oddur was riding home at dusk from performing a mass at Silfrastaðir. On his way home, he stopped by at Víðivellir to drink coffee with Sheriff Vigfús Scheving. Afterwards, the sheriff offered to escort him home, even though Miklibær was just down the road. Oddur declined and left alone.
The church at Silfrastaðir as it looked in 1850. Reverend Oddur was assigned to preach at this church and at the church at Miklibær. This church has since been rebuilt at the Árbær Museum in Reykjavík. Emanuel Larsen |
Víðivellir farm where Sheriff Vigfús Scheving lived. Þór Eyfeld Magnússon |
The house on Miklibær. In the distance is Víðivellir. Oddur disappeared somewhere on the 2 km stretch between the two farms. ai |
A dark hallway connecting the baðstofa to the front door. Glaumbær, Langholt. Guðni Þórðarson |
Sólveig’s ghost dragging Oddur who’s holding on to the window frame. Artist: Bjari Jónsson |
The search
Stories of Sólveig being responsible for the disappearance of Oddur began to circulate and many were convinced she had come back for him. Þrándur Þórarinsson |
Could Sólveig have dragged him down into her grave? Some people thought so, including Guðrún (Oddur’s wife) who wanted to dig her up to find out. This was where the line was drawn. Sheriff Vigfús wanted to hear nothing of it. This was pure nonsense and superstition. They were not to dig up her grave!
The ill fate of Oddur. The famous Icelandic poet Einar Benediktsson wrote a poem about this tragic event. This drawing is based on lines from the poem: “Dunar dátt í svellum, dæmdur maður ríður”. Artist Gísli Sigurðsson |
The dream
Gegnir, summer of 1985. Gegnir was a long deep stream. Some believe Sólveig drowned Oddur in Solkupyttur (Sólveig’s pool). Hjalti Pálsson |
Rumors and conspiracies
The church and farm at Goðdalir in 1945. Páll Jónsson |
Letter from Ragnheiður Þórarinsdóttir. The underlined portion is where she mentions the discovery of Oddur´s body.
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When they found the body and based on its appearance, they suspected Oddur had committed suicide. If this was the case, just like Sólveig, the reverend couldn’t be buried in the cemetery. All his belongings would be removed from his family and given to the crown (the queen). If they kept their discovery a secret, they could provide him with a proper Christian burial.
Gegnir (Solkupyttur), the stream which Oddur was possibly found by. In the photo is the theatre crew of a play about Sólveig contemplating Oddur’s possible death in Solkupyttur. Golli |
Frederick William Warbreck Howell 1857-1901 is buried in the same area as Sólveig was first buried at Miklibær cemetery. William Bridge |
Sólveig’s grave
Miklabæjarkirkja sometime between 1935 and 1950. The church doors face eastward. Sólveig was buried outside the northern (north-east) fence of the cemetery. Ólafur Magnússon |
Rev. Björn Jónsson, the priest at Miklibær, asked the men not to tell anyone about the remains. That didn’t stop rumors from spreading and soon people were saying that Rev. Oddur’s remains were found lying on top of Sólveig’s coffin.
You rest when Sólveig rests
On June 11th, 1937, Rev. Lárus Arnórsson (1895-1962), the priest at Miklibær received a call from Pétur Zophoníasson (1879-1946) requesting Sólveig’s remains to be dug up and given a proper burial at Glaumbær cemetery. This was a strange request.
Pétur went on to explain that Sólveig herself and other individuals who had passed on, had appeared at several séances making requests that he (Pétur), Rev. Lárus and one other individual would organize the transfer of her body and give her a Christian burial.
Ca. 1939. Rev. Lárus Arnórsson and his wife Guðrún with their two sons Stefán and Björn. District Museum of Scraps |
On Saturday, June 12th, 1937, Þorsteinn Björnsson (1889-1980) from Hrólfsstaðir was working road construction. After his lunch break, he went into his tent to take a nap. He wasn’t sure whether he was awake or asleep, but he saw the late Rev. Oddur, a tall dark haired man with trimmed beard. He walked towards Þorsteinn and quietly said, I can see that you will do as is asked of you.
Þorsteinn Björnsson (1889-1980). Vísir |
The day after, Sunday, June 13th, Þorsteinn had errands at Miklibær. When he got there, Pétur’s son, Zophonías Pétursson, later the president of NLFÍ (holistic rehabilitation and health clinic), had arrived to dig up Sólveig’s remains and move them to the cemetery in Glaumbær.
Zóphonías (1910-1984). Morgunblaðið |
They headed over to the cemetery, but when they got there, they realized that all the grave site tussocks looked the same. The cemetery had changed a lot since Sólveig was buried. The cemetery used to have a round shape and her grave was to the north-east. Now it’s square with different borders.
They didn’t have anything written down about the locations or a map drawn of which one was Sólveig’s. All they had to go on was their memory from the grave they dug 23 years earlier. The men disagreed where the grave was, but they decided to dig where the old lady’s son said she had been put to rest.
Turned out he was wrong, there was no grave where he thought it was, so they returned back to the farm without finding her remains. Sometime later, they went back out and dug where Sigurður had told them to dig. There was a big sigh of relief from the men when they saw the old lady’s coffin and Sólveig’s remains to the south of it.
Her remains were pretty much still intact, except the curly black hair was gone and the clothes ruined. It appeared to them that Sólveig had been rather short. Her teeth were intact and healthy looking. They picked up her remains and carried them inside the Miklibær church.
The actress playing Sólveig is lying in the spot where her remains were dug up and moved to Glaumbær cemetery. The play is after Ragnar Arnalds and was shown in the National Theatre in Reykjavík. Vigdís Gunnarsdóttir as Sólveig and Þröstur Leó Gunnarsson as Rev. Oddur. Golli |
On Sunday when the people arrived at Miklibær church, Sólveig and her beautiful small white casket that Rev. Lárus had someone make for her, was placed underneath the altar tablet where the choir usually stood. Rev. Oddur himself had gifted the church with this tablet in 1775. His name and the year was engraved at the bottom of the tablet. Sadly, the tablet burned when the church burned in 1973.
Miklabæjarkirkja (Miklibær Church) burned to the ground on Feb. 13th 1973. To the left is the image from the newspaper Tíminn taken by Stefán Pedersen. To the right is a digitally colored image of the photo by Steingrímur Árnason |
The kids were allowed to look inside the casket where Sólveig’s bones were neatly organized. Then the casket was closed and the kids were told these were the remains of a very unhappy woman and they all needed to pray for her soul. Then they all blessed the casket. Rev. Lárus held a memorial for her where he gave a beautiful sermon. The congregation sang psalms and prayed lovingly for her remains both before and after the sermon.
Some of the things found buried with Sólveig were a few of her precious belongings such as this needle and copper buttons. Feykir.is |
Sólveig’s final resting place
The tombstone of Rev. Gísli Oddsson, the son of Rev. Oddur from Miklibær. It is located in Glaumbæjarkirkjugarður (Glaumbær Cemetery). Morgunblaðið |
Sólveig’s casket being carried from Miklibær Church to Glaumbær Church. Front left is Þorsteinn Björnsson, behind him is Jóhann Lúðvíksson. Front right is Stefán Jónsson and next to him is Margrét Rögnvaldsdóttir (Þorsteinn’s wife). Behind her is Sigurður Einarsson and behind the casket is Helgi Valdimarsson. The church burned to the ground in 1973. Glaumbær.is |
Glaumbær. Gunnar Rúnar Ólafsson |
The famous author Halldór Laxness was present at the re-burial of Sólveig and took this picture. Halldór Laxness |
The theatre crew visiting Sólveig’s final resting place. The play is after Ragnar Arnalds and was shown in the National Theatre in Reykjavík. Vigdís Gunnarsdóttir as Sólveig and Þröstur Leó Gunnarsson as Rev. Oddur. Golli |
Sólveig’s current burial site in Glaumbæjarkirkjugarður (Glaumbær Cemetery). Glaumbær |
Miklibær farm and Miklibær cemetery. You can see how the newer additions to the cemetery have stretched norward. (The main road is to the east).The creek/stream appears dry when this areal was taken. Click on the link to see more of the surrounding area. Map.is |
Miklibær 1929. Lesbók Morgunblaðsins |
The new Miklibær church which was built after the old church burned to the ground. Skagafjordur.is |